How to Know When It’s Time to Get Help with Your Money Problems

If you’re worried about money, you’re not alone. Right now, people all over the world — including right here in South Africa — are feeling the pressure of rising costs, debt, and unexpected expenses.

But how do you know when it’s time to get professional help with your finances?

Think about this: when you start to feel sick, you don’t wait until you’re in hospital before seeing a doctor. You get help early. Or if your car starts making strange noises, you take it to a mechanic before it breaks down completely.

The same applies to money problems — the sooner you get help, the easier it is to fix.

Signs You Should Ask for Help Today

Just like ignoring a small cough can turn into a big illness, ignoring money stress can cause bigger problems. Here are some signs that show you should speak to a professional, like a debt counsellor:

• You worry all the time about paying bills or buying essentials like food and electricity.
• You are borrowing more money to pay off other debts or are using credit for basics.
• You avoid opening bills or answering calls because you’re afraid of what’s inside.
• Money worries are keeping you up at night or making you feel sick, anxious, or depressed.
• You always end up fighting with family or your partner about money.
• You are using unhealthy ways to cope, like drinking, gambling, or overeating.

Why It’s Important to Get Help Early

Many people think they need to wait until things are “really bad” before asking for help. But getting help early can prevent things from getting out of control.

Just like a doctor is better able to help you recover if you get diagnosed early, a debt counsellor can help you before you lose your house, car, or other important things if you reach out today.

After all, financial stress doesn’t just hurt your wallet — it can hurt your health, your relationships, and rob you of happiness.

Some people feel slightly ashamed to ask for help, but there’s no need. Money problems are super common, and getting help actually shows that you are strong enough to take action not just sit with your head in the sand.

Where to Start:

• Talk to someone you trust. Sometimes, just sharing your worries with a friend or family member can give you a new way to look at the problem.
• Speak to a professional. Debt counsellors, financial advisers, and even some community organizations can offer advice. In South Africa, debt counsellors are professionally trained to help you manage debt safely and get you more reasonable repayment plans.
• Start to track your money. Write down what you earn, what you owe, and what you spend. This gives you a clearer picture and helps you (or an expert) make a plan.

Sooner Is Better

Don’t wait for a total financial breakdown.

If your money troubles are starting to feel like too much, it’s time to act now!

It’s just like seeing a doctor early due to a nagging pain or a mechanic for a strange noise you start to hear in your car. Sooner is better.

The sooner you get help, the sooner you’ll start to feel better and regain control of your life.

Overwhelmed by Negative Thoughts?

If you feel totally overwhelmed by your situation and are having negative thoughts then you need to talk to someone now. Please don’t wait.

Here is one resource that you can call right now, 24 hours a day:

Lifeline South Africa

• 0861 322 322
• www.lifeline.org.za

Please remember you have options. So many options.

Options to repair relationships, to deal with your finances, options that can help you feel better and have a better future.